This Is Us

I Am Pre-Mourning My Parents

What it’s like to mourn the living

Arah Iloabugichukwu
Human Parts
Published in
7 min readMar 29, 2021

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Watercolor-like illustration of a person standing on a snowy field with their back to the viewer, watching the sun set over a cluster of trees on the horizon.
Image: Alice Popkorn via Flickr/CC BY 2.0

Over the winter, I got the urge to travel to my hometown, Pittsburgh. If you’re familiar with my writing, you know I have a love-hate relationship with that place. Two things bring me back home: holidays and funerals. But this time, neither was the reason for my trip. Before shutdown began, I was battling what I…

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Arah Iloabugichukwu
Human Parts

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