On Being Treated Like a Care ObjectSeveral years ago, I took a trip to Victoria, BC, to visit a lover. One day, we decided to go out on a date. We were walking towards the…Nov 14, 20244Nov 14, 20244
Why Pressuring a Sex Worker to Lower Their Rates Makes You a Piece of ShitOne of the more frustrating client behaviours I encounter as an escort are the guys (and sometimes women) who try to negotiate a cheaper…Nov 8, 20246Nov 8, 20246
I Am Gutted at the Thought of Another Trump PresidencyI am not surprised by it, but I am absolutely horrified by the direction the world is going with another Trump presidency.Nov 8, 20244Nov 8, 20244
On LonelinessWe hear so much lately about a male loneliness epidemic. On closer inspection, this epidemic looks a lot more like a sexual frustration…Nov 5, 202412Nov 5, 202412
Do Men Really Have Higher Sex Drives or Do They Just Have Permission?I seem to have gotten mixed up in a debate inspired by articles by Simon Forkt, PhD. Despite agreeing with a fair amount of what he said, I…Oct 24, 202412Oct 24, 202412
The #MeToo Movement is for Sex Workers TooOne of the most painful things that I have to deal with as a sex worker is the ridiculous notion that sex workers don’t have the right to…Jun 20, 20196Jun 20, 20196
Published inHuman PartsAn Open Letter to the Respectable Men Who Don’t Have My BackSex work is real work, even if my clients imagine otherwiseNov 16, 201824Nov 16, 201824
Why Shaming Sex Workers Hurts All WomenIn North American culture today, it is common to disparage female porn stars and other female/femme sex industry workers as damaged…Nov 16, 201813Nov 16, 201813