PinnedThe Cognitive Dissonance of Modern MotherhoodOn reconciling my maternal instincts with a world that dismisses and denies themOct 22, 202446Oct 22, 202446
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PinnedOkay, Okay, I’m On Substack NowMedium, I’m not leaving you yet. But I‘m cheating on you, just so you know.Apr 11, 202328Apr 11, 202328
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When Women Attack Each Other, the Patriarchy WinsThis isn’t about all of us “getting along.” It’s about redirecting the anger and blame.Mar 54Mar 54
Should I Try Dating Women?I don’t seem to be the only hetero-leaning woman asking this questionFeb 1826Feb 1826
What Distinguishes the Men Who Get It From the Men Who Don’tMany men who claim to be feminist allies are actually part of the problemFeb 415Feb 415
The Stories We Tell Ourselves About Marriage and HappinessWhen a social scientist “proved” that married people are happier, the media had a field day. But are we even asking the right question?Jan 2162Jan 2162
“Just Do Less” — And Other Unhelpful Tips for WomenThis advice is not as empowering as it’s made out to beDec 10, 202418Dec 10, 202418