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The Power of the Fuck-It DayOne day a week of saying “fuck it” has saved my sanity during quarantine.Apr 29, 20203291Apr 29, 20203291
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It’s Okay to Enjoy Social DistancingFinding joy during a crisis doesn’t make you a monster. It makes you sensible, sane, and more likely to do some good.Apr 2, 2020Apr 2, 2020
The Silver Linings of a PandemicIn dark times, our shared humanity illuminates a way forward.Mar 24, 2020Mar 24, 2020
Published inP.S. I Love YouLoving Your Body Can’t Be Based on LooksSelf-love doesn’t grow from self-loathing.Mar 19, 2020Mar 19, 2020
Published inAscent PublicationWant Success as an Artist? Fail Extravagantly.How some terrible life choices made me a better artist.Mar 18, 2020Mar 18, 2020
Published inEquality Includes YouWomen Hating Other Women Keeps the Patriarchy AliveWe’re programmed to hate ourselves & each other. No wonder we can’t harness the power of our numbers.Mar 5, 20202Mar 5, 20202
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