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Death to the Emoji

Why these cute little faces could be damaging your relationships

Lazlo Barclay
Human Parts
Published in
13 min readMar 23, 2021


A few weeks ago, I posted an Instagram story in the name of shameless self-promotion. Half an hour later, I checked Instagram and found my story had some replies — cool!

The sight was depressing to say the least. Six of the most recent people to reply to my story had tapped one of the eight automatic reaction emoji to let me know what they thought. But I still didn’t really know what they thought, and the fact that everyone had used the same two emoji left me struggling to differentiate the humans themselves. It felt like the same person had delivered the same message six times.

We often talk about how the digital world connects us all even more, but this experience left me feeling far from connected. So, how did we get to this point?


Human language is a pretty awesome thing. The ability to trade detailed information about concrete and abstract ideas is unique to us and helps us successfully persist as a species.