Family Secrets Never Die

A decade after I killed the family pet, my kids didn’t care that it happened — they cared that I didn’t tell them

Katy Friedman Miller
Human Parts
Published in
9 min readFeb 4, 2020

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Photo: Joe Sampouw via Flickr/CC BY 2.0

WWhen we were married, my now ex-husband used to call me the Grim Reaper. At the time — say, 2010 — it was meant at least partially as some kind of ribbing about the fact that I worked in hospice. It also referred to the role I often…

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Katy Friedman Miller
Human Parts

I’m a grief therapist and former hospice social worker. Sharing stories from life, death, and work and where they all intersect. TEDx talk at www.ted.com