He Told Me I Was an Option, Just Not *the* Option

The breakup that deprogrammed my toxic romantic pattern

Sasha Duncan
Human Parts
Published in
9 min readFeb 27, 2020

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It’s a few days into the New Year and I am nauseated and pale, vibrating with a soon-to-be sated expectancy.

I am breaking up with someone.

“You are an option; you’re just not the option.”

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Sasha Duncan
Human Parts

Offering wisdom and ramblings from my own stumbles, bumbles, fumbles and grumbles