How to Attract the Relationship You Really Want

Why you keep dating the same type of people and what to do about it

Lisa Marie Rankin
Human Parts
Published in
8 min readDec 26, 2019

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AA cow path is a trail created by cows that allows them to get their basic needs like water, food, and shelter met. Often these paths are not the most direct route. There might be a more efficient way to get there, but they’ve never walked it before. The cows continue to trudge along those same well-worn paths because it’s what they’ve always done in the past. Sometimes our romantic lives can feel like cow paths. We walk along with our heads down, attracting the same types of people and moving from one unfulfilling relationship to the next.

Fortunately, if you’re reading this, you’re not a cow. You have the consciousness to create a new path. It’s not always easy to modify conditioned behaviors, our cow paths, but we can make changes through awareness and intention.

FFirst, let’s talk about The Law of Attraction. The Law of Attraction is a book and a concept created by spiritual teachers Esther and Jerry Hicks (aka Abraham-Hicks). Their work explains that the energy we put out into the universe is the same energy we receive back. This interchange is especially true in dating.

When you have multiple dates lined up over the next several weeks, you’ll likely exude an air of…

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Lisa Marie Rankin
Lisa Marie Rankin

Written by Lisa Marie Rankin

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