Humans 101

How to Embrace Uncertainty in Dating and Relationships

Why you want to predict and control the outcome — and how to stop

Multiple exposure photo of a couple hanging out in a hotel room.
Multiple exposure photo of a couple hanging out in a hotel room.
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I finally arrive at work after an arduous, 75-minute commute. After taking off my winter coat, scarf, hat, and gloves, I refill my tea. Settling in at my desk, I pull out my laptop and log in to the network. First, I…