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How to Lose a Friend Over One Racist Post

There comes a time when we can’t look the other way

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I was falling in love the morning my grandma died. It was December 2017, and I was snuggled in bed with a woman I’d met just a few months before. We giggled and kissed under the comforter as we greeted the chilly Southern California morning together. When we…