I Didn’t Cry When Tom Brady Retired
When — and why — are men driven to tears?
My father once told me that the only time he ever saw his dad cry was when Bob Cousy retired from the Boston Celtics. This says a lot about what it took to get a man to reveal his feelings of pain and loss in 1963.
It also says a lot about Cousy, whose six championships with the Celtics match up nicely with Tom Brady’s six Super Bowls for the New England Patriots.
Until now, I never quite understood this bit of family lore. I read it as a parable about how bottled-up men can be, and never considered why my grandfather felt so connected to an athlete… one everyone called “Cooz.”
I was never an athlete, and I never followed sports until the ascension of Larry Bird; which happened to dovetail perfectly with my high school years. Together, these facts partially explain the total sense of disconnection I felt from my grandfather’s reaction.
But even after I became a fan, I didn’t cry when Bird retired.
I never had the chance to talk to my grandfather about Bob Cousy or the feelings he held for him. Instead, I was left with this kind-of-humorous, kind-of-sad recollection. Rather than focusing on what could have possibly been so important about Bob Cousy for Grandpa Sam, I was left wondering about all the feelings he…
