I Shared My Boyfriend With Another Woman

It wasn’t my first threesome, but it was the first with someone I loved — and that made all the difference

Sarai Perez
Human Parts

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AA threesome between my boyfriend, myself, and another woman was something I had personally fantasized about for a long time. I enjoyed watching threesome porn on my own and, when my boyfriend and I went to strip clubs, it turned me on to see him get lap dances.

The idea of another woman in our bed was casually mentioned in conversation, and then the idea stuck with us. We started dirty talking to each other about what we would do with another woman. We started watching porn together that fit our fantasy. My boyfriend and I discovered how much we wanted to invite another woman into our sex life.

One of the best things about our relationship is how open we’ve always been about many things. Our history, our fetishes, our porn habits, things we’d like to try, etc. We’re never embarrassed to ask the other, “Hey, I want to try this. What do you think?”

My boyfriend was aware that, although I had never dated a woman before, I definitely had my share of drunken hookups with girls in college. They’d start off innocently enough, making out at parties, but then my roommate and I would end up sneaking off into each other’s bedrooms and…

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Sarai Perez
Human Parts

Setting myself free through words of love and honesty.