This Is Us
I Want a Partner Who Expands My World, Not Fits Into It
But according to the men I know, the feeling’s not universal
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9 min readAug 18, 2020
An ex of mine, who I’ll call Matt, recently admitted that if he were to meet someone with a life as established as his own — someone extremely committed to her job, who owned a house, and felt rooted in her community — it…