I’m a Tall White Woman in a Short Brown Country

Not Even Wine With Dinner
Human Parts
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4 min readSep 19, 2024

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Re-Exploring My Tall Girl Angst Once Again

Me and one of many village ladies I adore, and tower over.

In March 2020, after years of hard deliberation, my husband and I packed up our lives and moved from Florida to Guatemala to be full time missionaries.

The list of challenges was long. New country, new language we didn’t speak, new culture, new food, new climate, and to top it off, a week after we arrived, the pandemic closed the door on the country. We went into lockdown for 9 months. As if this laundry list of challenges wasn’t enough, there was one expected challenge that didn’t even occur to me. My height.

My husband and I are both tall, but it’s my height in particular that catches the attention. I’m a woman. A tall white woman in a short brown country.

We live in an area with no tourism. No one comes here to see the sights. The handful of other Caucasians are also missionaries, but there are very few of us, and I am the tallest female by far. I am 5’10.” In the United States, the average height for a woman is 5‘4,” in Guatemala 4’10,” and for a Guatemalan man, 5’3.” As I’m over 50 years old, I’m well passed having any kind of height insecurities. I left most of those back in the halls of junior high school where I towered over both boys and…

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Not Even Wine With Dinner
Human Parts

Writer of stories on life, love, loss, liquor and the daily struggles with sobriety. My mantra is to "Find Yourself and Love What You Find".