This Is Us

Imagining My Family’s Way Through the Pandemic

Parenting through the reality of Santa and divorce and Covid-19

Katy Friedman Miller
Human Parts
Published in
8 min readDec 21, 2020

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Tent and fake campfire set up indoors with stuffed animals huddled around the fire and a telescope.
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‘I am enough of an artist to draw freely upon my imagination. Imagination is more important than knowledge. Knowledge is limited. Imagination encircles the world.’
Albert Einstein

When I was a little girl, maybe four or five years old, my mother was a witch. Well… she wasn’t always a witch — she was only a witch when my friend from up the street, Leigh, came over to play. She was only a witch when we begged her to scare us. And if she agreed, we ran to hide in the same place every time — in her closet behind her satiny robes, inhaling the smell of Chanel No. 5.

When my mom was a witch, she extravagantly pretended she couldn’t find us, cackling like Margaret Hamilton in The Wizard of Oz, pretending to hunt for us all through the house. She stomped noisily at times so we could hear her, or sometimes she would be eerily silent so we could not. Leigh and I would shiver and giggle as we felt her approach. We hushed ourselves, confident we would outwit her.

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Katy Friedman Miller
Katy Friedman Miller

Written by Katy Friedman Miller

I’m a grief therapist and former hospice social worker. Sharing stories from life, death, and work and where they all intersect. TEDx talk at www.ted.com

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