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In My Fifties, I’m Finally Learning to Say ‘F*ck You’

How midlife loosened my tongue

Middle finger up in the middle of a field.
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When I flipped off the speeding truck, I knew things had changed. Sending a hearty “fuck you” to a stranger was a thing I had almost never considered before, but in the moment, it seemed oddly, perfectly natural. I briefly reconsidered the wisdom of this change when he doubled…




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