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Why Liking Your Partner Is More Important Than Loving Them

It’s okay to revisit your 15-year-old self for a while

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Can you remember middle school? It started out with toys and games and ended with boobs and wispy little beards and mustaches. And at some point, the conversation changed from your friends asking “Do you want to play tag?” to “Who…