My Ex Just Married a Man
And I couldn't be happier for him
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9 min readJun 12, 2024
My husband knelt in front of me two times. The first was to ask me to marry him, and the second time was to set him free so he could pursue life as a gay man. I cried both times. When people hear that my ex is gay and we were married for thirty years, they want to know how in the world this happened, so I’ll start from the beginning.