Stop Mistaking Shared Trauma for Compatibility

You can’t build a healthy relationship on an unstable foundation

Arah Iloabugichukwu
Human Parts
Published in
6 min readJan 29, 2019

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Photo: Alexander Burghardt/Flickr

TTwo hopeless romantics meet at a bar. After a week of sharing flirty memes and sending early-morning text messages, the two agree to exchange judgments and pass opinions over a pair of pomegranate martinis. In true millennial fashion, their first face-to-face is ripe with…

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Arah Iloabugichukwu
Human Parts

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