Struggle Love Is Not a Badge of Honor
What we don’t talk about when we talk about marriage
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6 min readMay 27, 2019
A disturbing video came across my newsfeed not too long ago. It wasn’t a street fight or some bloody crime scene. In fact, it was a wedding. The video showed a woman, Pamela, crying tears of joy as she prepared to wed Blair, her longtime boyfriend of 23 years. The ceremony took place in a North Texas hospital…