The Objectified Experience

Sexualized from birth, it seems

Photo by Dainis Graveris on Unsplash

Most of the men I’ve had sex with, I’ve dissociated throughout the whole experience. Sure, I put on some sort of performance, but I largely wasn’t present.

The man with whom I had a sexual and trusting relationship for the last four years, I didn’t dissociate with. I was present fully. I enjoyed myself, mostly. However, if I’m to be…