This Is Us
Why I Feel Differently About Love Now That I’m in My 40s
Culture taught me to pursue love, then sex, then marriage — but that formula has never worked for me
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6 min readApr 7, 2021
I don’t remember the first time I said “I love you” to a partner. I know it was my first boyfriend, but I have no memory of saying it to him. I also have no…
