This Is Us

A Pandemic Commencement

The world may be on pause, but your life isn’t (and other thoughts for the class of coronavirus)

Timothy Kreider
Human Parts
Published in
12 min readMay 28, 2020

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A photo of graduation caps.
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For Sophia.

There’s a young writer I correspond with who was to have graduated college this month. She’d planned to move to New York City this summer, where she hoped she would finally meet the kinds of people she wanted to talk with about literature, art, and ideas. I’d put her in contact with a few people I thought might be able to help her with jobs or internships, even offered her a couch to crash on if she needed a base camp to find an apartment. Then the pandemic came, obliterating all plans and ambitions, wiping the calendar clean. Within days, all her friends were unceremoniously dispersed, with no time for goodbyes, graduation canceled, and her move postponed indefinitely. Instead, she’s moving back in with her parents (it still gives me an empathetic shudder, 35 years after I left home) and was recently turned down for a job at the local Ralph’s. All the psychic momentum she’d gathered to propel herself across the country to the capital of the publishing world and launch her literary career is guttering out into inertia, despondency.

It’s a hard time for all of us, but perhaps especially for young people, who feel as if their future has been…

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Timothy Kreider
Human Parts

Tim Kreider is the author of two essay collections, and a frequent contributor to Medium and The New York Times. He lives in NYC and the Chesapeake Bay area.