Humans 101
BDSM for the Curious but Terrified
There’s a reason we call it ‘play’: you experiment until you find what feels right
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9 min readMay 27, 2020
Have you ever asked your partner to hold you down during sex? What about a spank? Have you ever barked or purred in the middle of fooling around? Or maybe you’ve had more than a sideways glance at the floggers, paddles, and…