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Choose Your Own Reality

Our competing realities share one thing in common: they invite us to undergo the demything of America

Jonathan Martin
Human Parts
Published in
18 min readJun 3, 2020

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We live and die by narrative. Our lives are constructed largely not by what happens to us, but by the stories we tell about what happens to us. This is why language matters, why words matter, and why there’s never “only rhetoric.” Whoever tells the narrative — by what means and in what form — shapes reality. In America, reality itself is constantly unstable. It seems to quiver, spasm, crack, fizzle, contract, expand, threatening to explode; reality feels combustible. Reality is made up largely of our words, and we have no collective language, no consensus on what words mean.

Like the ancient story of the Tower of Babel, we watch as our massive human ego project shakes and sways, built on a myth of unlimited expansion, unrestrained ambition, manifest destiny, and individualism. Constructing a reality that denies our frailties and vulnerabilities on a myth of independence instead of dependence, building as if we were not created, as if we are not contingent — we overreach, over, and over. Speech between people and between peoples signifies nothing, clarifies nothing. Words are trivialized, relativized, weaponized, and then finally just reduced to meaningless…

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Jonathan Martin
Jonathan Martin

Written by Jonathan Martin

author of The Road Away from God, How to Survive a Shipwreck & Prototype. Director of Center for Spiritual Life at DePauw University. jonathanmartinwords.com

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