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What It’s Like to Have an Eating Disorder During Lockdown

A cupboard full of canned goods triggers my deepest insecurities

Cara Roe
5 min readMar 15, 2020

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A blurred image of an aisle in a grocery store, focused on the center where a woman is walking.
Photo: Thomas Hawk/Flickr

WWhen I was 11 years old, I watched the second Jurassic Park movie, The Lost World, and had a panic attack about a giant meteor hitting the Earth and causing the end of the world. I lay in bed and pushed my open eyes into my pillowcase, imagining the last moments I would spend with my family. Apart from the total and encompassing terror a panic attack brings, I sensed frustration — this imagined catastrophe was so utterly unfair. Why did this have to happen to me? Surely it wasn’t the actual end? What did I do wrong?

My feeling of powerlessness during these childhood attacks still angers me. Over time, I have trained myself to control these fears. I’ve learned to either ignore reality with self-medication (to my own detriment) or to play so deeply into the needs of the people closest to me that when they eventually hurt me and my fears are confirmed, I call it control.

Control has been high on my list of values for a long time. As soon as I become uncomfortable in a situation, I shrink into the safety of rituals that shape who I am when I am alone with myself. Ask anyone who has an eating disorder or is in recovery from one what goes on in their…

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Cara Roe
Cara Roe

Written by Cara Roe

Hottie living and working in Eora, attempting to write in places that exist outside of my diary.

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