This Is Us
Lessons in Couple Privilege and Nonmonogamy
Thinking you can choose how a relationship will evolve has risks.
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7 min readJul 7, 2020
Since I prefer to date other nonmonogamous people, the question “How long have you and your partner been polyamorous?” comes up fairly early in conversations. It’s more than just curiosity. I consider it a litmus test, a sizing up, because…