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Mommy Issues: Unlearning Inherited Pain

I come from a long line of mothers abusing daughters

Joan Tierney
Human Parts
Published in
16 min readMay 10, 2020

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A black and white photo of two ghostly girls sitting on an antique couch with a creepy doll next to them.
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When I call my mother on Mother’s Day, we make mild conversation for 30 minutes. She asks about my job. I ask about the ducks. She complains about my father. We withdraw from the conversation as soon as good manners allow. This is, believe it or not, the healthiest…

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