This Is Us

Want to Feel Loved? Get Cancer.

You don’t know what demons other people are battling. Love them as if you do.

Brandon Janous
Human Parts
Published in
6 min readJan 13, 2020

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MyMy wife has cancer. Again. Yep, that’s right, I said again. You see, she had already beaten it once, just over a year ago. I mean, we took a victory trip to Palm Springs and toasted the fact that the final test results had come in and we’d kicked cancer’s ass.

But it came back. And it wasn’t supposed to come back. At least, I didn’t think it was supposed to come back. And it for sure wasn’t supposed to come back this fast. I mean, we beat it. It was gone. We had our “cancer chapter,” and we sure didn’t need to have another one.

But you see, cancer doesn’t care what you want or what you feel or what you think is fair. Cancer is a bitch. It can ruin plans, it can ruin finances, it can ruin relationships and it can even ruin lives. It doesn’t care how much or how little money you have. It doesn’t care if you’re educated or not. It doesn’t care what religion you are or what you believe. I’m just letting you know that cancer doesn’t care what your agenda is because it has got its own.

We have three kids. They are eight, seven, and five. And we don’t hide Mommy’s cancer from them. We are honest. We are open. We cry together. We laugh together. We…

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Brandon Janous
Brandon Janous

Written by Brandon Janous

Widower | Daddy to 3 | Writer | Storyteller | IG: @brandonjanous

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