This Is Us
Stop Worrying About Virginity
Rigid definitions of sex distracted me from enjoying my experiences
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4 min readJun 17, 2020
“If you don’t have sex by your 21st birthday, let us know.”
I had no idea how to respond to the offer. Was it a kindness? A joke at my expense? I barely knew these women from the dorm, but everyone knew about my “problem.” I was 20…